"addiction"

About "addiction" today

There are three types of addiction.

" Dependence on substances''


 Alcohol dependence
 Pachinko dependence
 Caffeine dependent
 Drag dependence

" Process (action) addiction"

 Love dependency
 Internet dependent
 Molester / violence dependence
 Arson and theft dependence

"Interpersonal dependence"
 Guru dependence
 DV dependent
 Child abuse

 Don't you know?

 Why do dependency symptoms occur?

 “Weak”
 "selfish"
 “No guts”
 "Childish"

 ↑↑
 Will adults interpret it as above?

Addiction is not a problem of the child who develops it, it is a symptom that anyone can have.

Many of those who suffer from dependence are...
It is no exaggeration to say that the relationship with parents (adults) at the time of feeling is a major cause.

 From my mother ...
 "You are not good at Sports, so study."
 "You go to college in the future, so don't play and go to cram school"
 "Your friend got 100 points in the test, why can you get only 80?"
 “Why why why why why?”

What kind of child do you think will be?

Infancy when parents are less likely to give up.

Childhood to be compared.

Childhood when there was no expression of affection for skin sensations such as hugging

 From an adult (teacher) ...
 “Why do you forget it right now?
 "Do you understand that common sense?"
 “She is a liar that she cannot talk with her eyes.”

The only thing left for children is "Loneliness"


Negative words from parents and adults, words that don't allow you to admit yourself when you are feeling

  “Short words” from parents, teachers, and adults who have no knowledge can be a curse that bears a lifetime for children.



When the child grows up, he fills his heart with a form of “dependence”.

Satisfied with what is needed by someone (you can't live without that person and fight anxiety about being abandoned)

Alcohol intake is out of control due to forgetfulness

The stimuli of a certain process (act) become pleasant, and the work, home, and money are no longer effective.

As a result, you lose your health and you lose sight.

And then you start to lie to people, lose your friends, family, and colleagues, and go into a vicious circle.

It is no exaggeration to say that it is a brain disease because the brain seeking stimulation is not satisfactory and cannot be controlled by the person's intention.

This is "addiction"

In order to overcome, it is important to be aware of yourself and to be able to understand your feelings.

 And it is necessary to deal with specialists, not just with relatives.


Without relying on medicine, to improve one's ability, overcome one who is weak, and become a stronger one,

If AMI can do it.

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